So you downloaded the dating apps, you picked your cutest selfies, and now you’re staring down a blank profile wondering how to answer those blurbs on a Bumble profile without sounding like every other person on the app. Deep breaths—you’re not alone.
“I help my clients fill out their profiles all the time,” says AASECT-certified sex therapist Jenni Skyler, PhD, director of The Intimacy Institute. And honestly? It makes sense why a therapist would be able to help with your dating app prompts; your answers are meant to show who you are, what you want, and why someone should actually swipe right on you… all in a sentence or two. A tricky task!
They key to knowing what to include in your Bumble profile, according to Skyler, is to “be as clear as possible about what you want and who you are.” This means it’s not just about being cute or clever. If something’s important to you (like political views, being sober, wanting kids, etc.), don’t be afraid to say it upfront. “[This] weeds out people who won’t fundamentally match with your wants and needs,” Skyler explains.
Still, it’s important to stand out in a good way from the start (because this is still about the art of attraction, after all). That’s why Skyler recommends choosing conversation starters that let *your* personality shine through—and we’ve got 40 great ones to get you started. These are the best Bumble profile prompts to show off your values, your vibe, and your sense of humor (which we already know is flawless, obviously). Let’s make that profile right-swipe worthy.
1. My healthy obsession is…
This prompt helps other users understand what kinds of hobbies and special interests you have, explains sex therapist Janet Brito, PhD, founder of the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health. “It gives you some common ground to potentially start with. People can respond and say, ‘Wow, that’s my obsession, too.’” Or, it opens the door for them to ask you a question in their message.
What you can say:
- Love Island USA. [Or insert whatever other reality TV show you love.] I’ve been watching it all summer long.
- The A Court of Thorns and Roses book series. [Or insert whatever your hyper-fixation book is right now.] I can’t put them down!
- My new puppy! [Or kitten… Insert your pet here!]
2. My favorite way to do nothing is…
This prompt is basically begging for a soft launch of your lazy day routine. It’s great for showing off your vibe, whether you’re a pajamas-all-day person, a low-key productivity machine, or a chaos goblin who can’t sit still but likes to pretend. It also gives potential matches an idea of how you actually spend your downtime—aka whether you’re compatible for a lazy weekend at home (you know…someday).
What you can say:
- Rewatching New Girl [or your favorite comfort show] for the 37th time.
- Sitting on my couch, pretending to meditate but actually just disassociating under a face mask.
- Sitting outside and simply existing (in a non-woo-woo way).
3. I was today years old when I learned…
Whatever you’re a fanatic of, make it known here. It can be something you *actually* learned today, or you can take some creative liberties (we give permission). Share a fun fact about the way your favorite movie was made or how many rooms a royal palace had—but no matter what you choose, make sure it reveals a bit about your unique interests or hobbies! Think of this as a way to open up your conversation with potential dates, who hopefully share facts of their own in return.
What you can say:
- Is that New York City taxis used to be red and green, not yellow.
- The tallest building in the world is in Dubai!
- Elvis Presley liked sandwiches with peanut butter, banana, and bacon on them!
4. My ultimate green flag is…
No, this isn’t the time to give a laundry list of must-have qualities in a partner. Instead, use this question “to share the kind of experiences that you’re looking for—especially ones you’re looking to share with a future partner,” explains Brito. Basically, it allows you to find people who share common interests with you. But make sure you’re keeping it specific! Don’t write a throwaway answer. Think about what you’d actually need in order to find your match.
What you can say:
- You absolutely *need* to live in a warm climate.
- You prefer staying in with a glass of wine to going out for drinks.
- You can’t live without having a pet in your life.
5. I’m known for…
Think about it: What do your friends and family consider one of your defining traits? Maybe it’s making a killer homemade pizza, or being the first one out the door in the morning to work out on vacation. Whatever it is, this is a chance to spill a bit about yourself. It opens up the opportunity for conversation over shared (or differing!) characteristics or interests between you and potential dates.
What you can say:
- Being the first one up every morning. I’m an early riser.
- Making the best [insert dish here] and bringing it to every party.
- Giving the best hugs.
6. What my therapist would say about me…
Don’t disclose too much with this question, Brito says. You don’t want to overload potential dates with TMI too soon. That said, this is a great prompt to use to be transparent about your growth coping skills, Brito explains. You can show potential dates you value your mental health (which is hot!) by saying you go to therapy, exercise, read, etc. Whatever helps your mental health thrive is great to put here!
What you can say:
- My run club is a must. It gets me outdoors and has helped me make new friends!
- I’m her favorite client. Just kidding. Ugh, I should probably bring this up next week, huh?
- Volunteering at [insert organization] every weekend grounds me.
7. I’m hoping you…
Don’t put too much pressure on potential dates in your answer here, but also don’t be afraid to spill what you’re actually hoping for in your next relationship. You can tell them you want to take them out to a specific restaurant you’ve been dying to try. Or, you can say you hope they’ll accept one of your weird habits. (Like brushing your teeth in the shower, lol.) Don’t be afraid to be silly here, but also, be honest—it’ll help you break down each other’s walls and get to the core of who you are as people.
What you can say:
- Don’t judge me for how many t-shirts I own!
- Will want to go to [insert restaurant] with me. They have the best [insert menu item].
- Love to exercise. I need a running buddy!
8. I show care by…
Whether your love language is acts of service, words of affirmation, or aggressively sending memes at 2 a.m., this prompt gives you a chance to show how you express affection—and what you value in return. It’s also a subtle way to hint at what kind of emotional maturity (or bare minimum effort!) you’re looking for in a match.
What you can say:
- Sending “made me think of you” TikToks to keep you laughing.
- Noticing when you’re overwhelmed and ordering takeout before you even say anything.
- Listening without trying to fix it (unless the fix is murdering your boss, in which case I’m in).
9. My humble brag is…
Sure, feel free to be silly here. But it would also be wise to use this as an opportunity to talk about something you bring to the table. Are you a pro at building furniture? Are you an amazing party host? Where did you learn the talent? Let potential matches know and feel free to be creative. Don’t write this one off even if it seems simple.
What you can say:
- I can build absolutely anything from IKEA, no matter how obscure the directions are. I’ve built so many furniture pieces because…
- I never use the Maps app on my phone. My brain is like a compass. I always know where I’m going because….
- I’m amazing at folding clothes and organizing. I used to work retail at…
10. Two truths and a lie…
Think of this one as more of a conversation starter! It’s the perfect prompt for garnering responses from matches, who can reach out trying to decipher the truth behind your statements. Make them easy to guess or hard, but no matter what, try to infuse a bit of your personality in there! Pretend you’re playing with friends: What would make them laugh? What might peak their interest? What are facts that people should definitely know about you?
What you can say:
- I love watching movies about [insert genre]. My favorite director is [insert here]. But I hate [insert movie].
- I play [insert sport] every weekend. I’ve seen [insert number] musicals in my life. I’m obsessed with [insert musician].
- I’m from [insert location] originally. I’ve moved [insert number] many times in my life. I’m amazing at cooking [insert dish].
11. After work you can find me…
This prompt gives you the opportunity to tell people how you like to prioritize your free time, Skyler explains. It’s your chance to tell someone whether you’re a gym rat, love a good post-work happy hour, prefer to curl up with a movie, and more. It’ll give them an idea of your nighttime rituals and if you might have habits in common that you can take up together in the future.
What you can say:
- I like to hit the gym or go to my favorite workout class. (Don’t be afraid to specify which one!)
- I unwind by grabbing happy hour drinks and dinner with my friends or co-workers.
- Wrapping myself in a blanket and watching a movie is the move for me.
12. One thing to know about my friend group is…
This prompt lets you show off the people who really know you. Whether you’ve been through it all together or just never miss a Tuesday trivia night, your friend group says a lot about what you value—and gives potential matches a sneak peek at what they might be walking into (in the best way).
What you can say:
- We’re the type of people who celebrate everything. Promotions, breakups, finally folding the laundry.
- They’ve been there for every high and low—and they’ll probably be there for our third date too.
- We send each other voice notes like they’re podcasts. So yeah, hope you like a strong group chat game.
13. An essential to a successful first date is…
It’s not too often you get the perfect opportunity to lay down your first date expectations without sounding like you’re drafting a prenup (and make it clear what you value along the way). Take it! Whether you’re all about great conversation, friends-to-lovers vibes, or someone who actually picked a place with seating, this one tells potential matches how to impress you from date one.
What you can say:
- Mutual effort. If I shaved my legs, you better have made a reservation.
- Being able to laugh at the awkward silences (because there will be at least one).
- Feeling safe, seen, and just the right amount of butterflies.
14. When my phone dies I…
It might seem random, but this prompt can be surprisingly revealing. Think of it as a chance to show how you connect to the world around you when you’re not tethered to your screen. Whether you’re soaking up the moment, people-watching, or low-key panicking because your playlist just stopped mid-song, there’s something endearing about how we all react to being suddenly offline.
What you can say:
- Take it as a sign to be more present (and then immediately miss my camera roll).
- Look up, breathe in, and try to remember what life was like before Google Maps.
- Wish I had written down my thoughts instead of trusting the Notes app with my entire personality.
15. The last note I wrote on my phone says…
This is a super simple (and charmingly vulnerable) way to give someone a peek inside your brain—no filter, no pressure. Whether it’s a grocery list, a half-baked poem, or a dream you swear you were this close to remembering, it’s an open door into your inner world. Weird? Maybe. But also very real.
What you can say:
- Something like “barking oranges” with zero explanation and even less context.
- A reminder to call my grandma, buy oat milk, and finally donate the clothes in my trunk.
- A list of dog names for the pup I plan to get next year!
16. My real-life superpower is…
While you might be wary of hyping yourself up too much, this prompt is actually a great way to show what you care about. “It demonstrates what you value, who you are, and who you give your time to,” Brito says, which can be a super sweet way to get to know someone. What you consider to be a superpower also says a lot about you! All in all, it’s a great prompt to answer if you’re looking to get deep with potential dates without *seeming* too deep. Inception!!!
What you can say:
- Making a grocery list in my head and actually sticking to it.
- Getting emotionally attached to a character in under three episodes.
- Giving award-winning pep talks to friends at midnight.
17. Do you agree or disagree that…
This is your chance to stir the pot—or find someone who thinks exactly like you do. Whether it’s a spicy take or a wholesome hill you’ll die on, use this prompt to spark convo (or compatibility).
What you can say:
- The best part of adulthood is canceling plans?
- Pineapple on pizza is elite and we should all admit it?
- Love languages are just attachment styles in a trench coat?
18. The world would be a better place with more…
Consider this question an opportunity to delve into your deeper, more philosophical or existential thoughts, Brito says. Again, don’t treat it as a throwaway! (Unless you can think of an answer that really shows off your specific sense of humor.) “Use this as a way to talk about topics that are a little more value-driven,” Brito says. That way, it gives the person viewing your profile a chance to see if your views align. And if they don’t? That’s great, because then neither of you wasted your time.
What you can say:
- People spent less time on social media and more time face-to-face. So let’s meet up?
- More people respected and understood that everyone deserves [insert opinion here].
- Mandatory vacation days and sabbatical leaves.
19. I feel my hottest when…
This convo starter isn’t about looking perfect—it’s about feeling good in your skin. Use it to show what confidence looks like for you, whether it’s physical, emotional, or somewhere in between. A strong answer here can make you stand out by showing you know yourself and what makes you shine, which is way more attractive than perfection anyway.
What you can say:
- I’ve had a full night of sleep, and I’m making someone laugh.
- I’m walking home from the gym, music blasting, fully in my main character era.
- I just stood up for myself and didn’t say sorry after.
20. My personal hell is…
This is your chance to show a little self-awareness and find someone who shares your red (or beige) flags. Whether you go funny, specific, or strangely existential, this prompt helps your potential matches get a sense of what drives you nuts—and if they’d be likely to trigger it.
What you can say:
- A group project where no one makes a Google Doc.
- Being stuck behind someone who just remembered how to drive.
- A dinner party where no one brought dessert or quoted The Office.
21. The one thing I’d love to know about you is…
We love this one because it’s basically an excuse to flirt and screen for compatibility. It gives potential matches a clear opening to share something meaningful—or weird!—which makes it perfect for actually starting a convo that doesn’t involve “Sooo how was your day?” Go deep, go silly, go full ick-check if you want.
What you can say:
- What song would play during your main character montage?
- What was your childhood dream job?
- Your most unhinged travel story.
22. A fictional character I relate to is…
This prompt gives a subtle peek into your emotional world without requiring a full-blown vulnerability spiral. It’s also a great way to connect over shared pop culture faves and help a potential match understand how you see yourself—or who you aspire to be. Whether you pick someone funny, chaotic, soft-hearted, or all of the above, your answer can be a conversation starter and a quiet little green flag.
What you can say:
- Chandler Bing. Deflects with humor, feels everything deeply.
- Nat from The Bear. Soft girl energy but will absolutely go feral for the people I love.
- Ginny from Harry Potter (the books, not the movie—IYKYK).
23. My perfect Sunday includes…
Are you a nine to five person? Do you work weekends? What does your Sunday actually look like? Let the reader know, then explain what would make it legit perfect. Again, let potential matches into your world so people can get a sense of what you’re really like IRL.
What you can say:
- If I’m off of work, I bask in reading the newspaper, making my coffee, walking my dog, and making a delicious Sunday dinner.
- In a perfect world, since I have work on Mondays, I’m all about a Sunday reset. I like to make time to clean my house, do laundry, go to the grocery store, and more—basically all those things that would stress me out during the work week!
- I’m usually recovering from a night out, hah. Join me for a bacon, egg, and cheese bagel?
24. My morning routine looks like…
We’re not asking for a play-by-play of you brushing your teeth here; the point is to show off your vibe before the day gets chaotic. Are you a sunrise yoga and green juice girly, or more of a “hit snooze six times and pray the coffee kicks in” type? Bonus points if you keep it funny, reveal a little personality quirk, and/or give a swiper something to connect on.
What you can say:
- Trying to meditate while my dog judges me for not feeding him first.
- Dry shampoo, oversized sunglasses, and a very large iced latte.
- Depends on the day, but it always starts with gratitude and some type of carb.
25. Together we could…
This one’s basically an invitation, so give people something fun, flirty, or specific to picture with you. Whether it’s a big bucket-list goal or a small everyday thing, you’re showing what kind of vibe you bring to a relationship (adventurous, silly, cozy, ambitious, etc.).
What you can say:
- Accidentally spend $200 at Target and call it a date.
- Try every margarita spot in the city—for science, obviously.
- Book a spontaneous trip and pretend we’re in a rom-com montage.
26. Instead of drinks, let’s…
This is a great prompt if you’re sober, sober-curious, or just tired of every date revolving around overpriced cocktails. It’s your chance to show what you’re actually into and spark ideas beyond the bar scene—think activities that let you connect (and remember the convo the next day). The best part? You’ll stand out instantly since most people default to “grabbing a drink.”
What you can say:
- Hit a bookstore and then debate which section is the best over coffee.
- Try a cooking class and see if we can make something edible.
- Go on a night walk with ice cream cones like we’re in a teen drama.
27. Win me over by…
Give ‘em a leg up and make it super clear what actually works on you—whether that’s humor, effort, or remembering your coffee order. Instead of leaving people guessing, you’re giving them a cheat sheet to get it right from the start. Bonus: it weeds out anyone who can’t be bothered to study before actually meeting up.
What you can say:
- Laughing at my bad jokes like I’m a stand-up comic.
- Remembering my Starbucks order without asking.
- Asking thoughtful questions (bonus points for actively listening to the answers).
28. Favorite quality in a person…
You don’t have to answer this one in a romantic context. Maybe you can write about how you love your sibling because they’re super laid back. Or you love your best friend because they’re always down to try something new with you. Make this an opportunity for your match to learn more about the people you include in your life. Maybe they’ll resonate with the answer.
What you can say:
- I love someone who is super laid back, like my bestie.
- People who can have fun no matter what they’re doing.
- I like those who aren’t afraid to voice their opinion.
29. My perfect first date is…
Forget the default “dinner and drinks” response. This is your chance to show what feels fun and natural to you. A specific answer not only helps your match picture the vibe, but it also gives them a built-in idea for planning. The more detail you drop (without writing a novel), the easier it is for someone to say “yes” to actually making it happen.
What you can say:
- Hitting a dive bar for karaoke so I can prove I only know one song start to finish.
- A long walk with good conversation (and maybe a stop for dessert).
- April 25—it’s not too hot, not too cold, and all you need is a light jacket. (Major bonus points if you get it.)
30. I’ll never forget the time I…
Think of this as your chance to tease a great story without giving the whole thing away. You want to share just enough detail to show what kind of person you are—whether you’re adventurous, goofy, or reflective—while leaving room for your match to ask, “Wait, I need to hear the rest of that.” The best answers are specific, a little surprising, and double as an easy conversation starter.
What you can say:
- Accidentally tripped onstage at graduation and somehow turned it into a bow.
- Snuck into a concert with friends and ended up meeting the band after.
- Got lost in a new city and had the best day wandering around on my own.
31. My family still doesn’t know I…
This one is perfect for slipping in a fun secret or cheeky confession that shows you don’t take yourself too seriously. The goal isn’t to expose deep family drama—it’s to share a surprising detail that makes someone curious to know the full story. Bonus: It instantly sets you up with something flirty or funny to unpack on a date.
What you can say:
- Got a tiny tattoo on spring break and never mentioned it.
- Am the one who broke the antique vase on Christmas.
- Once skipped Thanksgiving to travel, and it was one of my favorite trips ever.
32. I get fully nervous when…
Yup, it’s time to admit to a moment that’s equal parts relatable and endearing. Trust us, it works! Everyone gets nervous, so it’s about showing that you’re self-aware and human (no AI here, sorry!). Sharing your “tell” not only makes you more approachable, it also opens the door for your match to say, “Same.”
What you can say:
- I have to parallel park while people are watching.
- I send the first “so…do you want to hang out?” text.
- I meet someone I really admire and instantly forget how to talk.
33. My character flaw is…
Think of this as the most low-stakes way to poke fun at yourself, which, yes, is a v hot quality. A good answer will reveal something real enough to be honest but playful enough to be attractive. You’re signaling that you can laugh at yourself while still showing off your personality. Done right, this prompt makes your “flaw” sound like something a future partner could actually find charming.
What you can say:
- I will 100 percent steal your fries without asking.
- I’m incapable of watching just one more episode.
- I care way too much about winning board games.
34. Hopefully you’re also really into…
Here’s your chance to put your interests out there without making them sound like requirements. The trick is to share something specific enough to spark a “wait, same” moment, but fun enough that even someone who isn’t into it might be curious to try. It’s less about gatekeeping and more about showing what lights you up.
What you can say:
- Saturday morning farmers’ markets followed by a bottomless mimosa brunch.
- Binge-watching bad reality TV and providing live commentary.
- Long spontaneous road trips with great playlists and too many snacks.
35. Teach me something about…
Think of this one as an open invitation for curiosity. The best answers here are playful, flirty, or a little nerdy—something that lets your match imagine what it would be like to spend time with you learning or laughing. It works because you’re giving them an easy in for conversation while also showing you’re down to try new things.
What you can say:
- The perfect golf swing (I’ll bring the cooler, you bring the patience).
- Your favorite conspiracy theory that you swear might actually be true.
- A recipe that’s been in your family for generations.
36. What makes a relationship great is…
Everybody can say “trust” or “communication,” but that doesn’t actually tell your match much about you. The best answers here zoom in on how those things show up in real life—whether it’s cracking up over inside jokes, feeling like a team on Sunday errands, or being the person they call first with good news. Think less Hallmark, more “here’s what it looks like when it’s actually working.”
What you can say:
- Laughing so hard together that people at the next table stare.
- Still wanting to kiss each other after zero time apart.
- Feeling safe enough to be fully yourself, even on the hard days.
37. My couples dress-up idea is…
This is your chance to show off a playful side (and maybe test if your match has a sense of humor and flair for theatrics). Whether you go ironic, sexy, or pop-culture clever, the best answers are specific enough to spark a mental image and make someone laugh. Bonus: It doubles as your first couples’ Halloween or theme-party costume. Cute!
What you can say:
- Jack and Rose from Titanic. Or Rose and the door (as long as I’m the door).
- PB&J with matching sweatsuits (comfy and iconic).
- Beyoncé and Jay-Z circa the “Apesh*t” music video.
38. I’ve been challenging myself to…
Time to show off your growth (without sounding like you’re writing a cover letter). A strong answer balances honesty with personality—whether you’re working on a new skill, pushing yourself outside your comfort zone, or just trying to break a silly habit. The key is to pick something that makes you seem relatable and sparks conversation, not something so vague it feels like filler.
What you can say:
- Cook something other than pasta with jarred sauce.
- Actually text back before someone has to send the “???”
- Say yes to new experiences, even if they scare me a little.
39. My dream is to…
Everyone says “travel more” or “be happy,” but the fun of this prompt is showing what your dream actually looks like. Pick something that feels like you (whether it’s a little outrageous, romantic, or low-key wholesome), then phrase it in a way that makes someone want to lean in and hear more.
What you can say:
- Own a tiny beach bar where I DJ badly but the vibes are immaculate.
- Travel through Italy eating my weight in pasta and wine.
- Write a book that actually makes someone feel seen.
40. My simple pleasures are…
The magic of this prompt is that it makes you instantly relatable. Everyone has little joys that get them through the day, so use yours to paint a picture of what hanging out with you feels like. Think small, specific, and a little cheeky; you’re not listing your entire self-care routine, just the highlights that make life feel good.
What you can say:
- Coffee so strong it counts as a personality trait.
- Long walks that end with ice cream (because balance).
- Fresh sheets, good playlists, and nowhere to be.
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